College relationships are in my opinion a farce (if you're too stupid to know what a farce is, well it means a joke).
Then again I'm the guy who feels that relationships in general are a joke, my longest one lasted less then a month. This didn't happen because I did anything wrong, but because after a while it just seemed to me that the other was really immature and has not the slightest on acting normal, or holding themselves in an honorable or respectful way. But regardless....
I love you, I love you too.... excuse me while I vomit.. It's fake, love is a man-made emotion created by the Russell's Chocolate company and Trojan condoms so they can make a helluva lot of money. Ok now that's not all true, but it is for the most part.
I hear it, read it, see it all of the time. People telling their booby (oh yea that's ehh... that's idiot speak for boyfriend) how mush dey wuv dem... aww but not really. My question is how can you LOVE someone you just met? Or alright even if you've known them for months or even years how can you LOVE them??? Love has been cheapened so much. Love is defined as an intense feeling of deep emotion. If my book if you have an intense feeling of deep emotion about anything then you really need to break out the straight jacket but that's just me.
Ya see everyone wants to find their soul mate (duh) as do I, BUT I'm not going to throw myself into a titled "boyfriend girlfriend relationship" (so freaking lame sounding) just because I feel that I found that one true person (standing outside of L'amour smoking a cigarette and having trouble standing up).
College is the training ground for the rest of your life. You are supposed to go out with your friends, develop relationships, and experience new people, so that when your college career ends you will have a solid understanding on how to deal with others in the REAL world. Because remember College is not the real world. (it's more like the Matrix, without Keanu Reaves [thank God])
Be free have fun... go get coffee with different people go to clubs and the movies with anyone you want.. HONESTLY... if you can give me a list of ten (VALID) things you get out a relationship I will delete this blog and call myself a jackass.. Because that's just the thing, at this point in our lives there is absolutely no need for a significant other.. it's just the "oh em gee they met in college and got married so it could like totally happen to me (meanwhile you saw that BS on MTV and they are paid actors)."
I really don't understand why people can not just have friends who they go out with do whatever with have a great time with and keep it title less.. it's just mind boggling to me.
So My challenge is posed... write me a list of ten things you get out of a relationship and I'll delete this blog... But if it sucks I will do something silly...
johnny
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